A Father's Role

This comes from a speech by Ezra Taft Benson. I recommend you read the whole thing, but here are some highlights.


"Your homes should be havens of peace and joy for your family. Surely no child should fear his own father—especially a priesthood father. A father’s duty is to make his home a place of happiness and joy. He cannot do this when there is bickering, quarreling, contention, or unrighteous behavior. The powerful effect of righteous fathers in setting an example, disciplining and training, nurturing and loving is vital to the spiritual welfare of his children."


And here are a few things that really made my day (the numbering is as it appears in the speech, but I only put a few here):

1. "4. 
   Go on daddy-daughter dates and father-and-sons’ outings with your children. As a family, go on campouts and picnics, to ball games and recitals, to school programs, and so forth. Having Dad there makes all the difference.
2. 5. 
   Build traditions of family vacations and trips and outings. These memories will never be forgotten by your children.
3. 6. 
   Have regular one-on-one visits with your children. Let them talk about what they would like to. Teach them gospel principles. Teach them true values. Tell them you love them. Personal time with your children tells them where Dad puts his priorities....
4. 8. 
   Encourage good music and art and literature in your homes. Homes that have a spirit of refinement and beauty will bless the lives of your children forever."